Deciding where to elope is one of the most exciting parts of planning your day. With endless possibilities such as mountains to beaches, lush forests to deserts, it can feel overwhelming to narrow it down. Your location sets the stage for your ceremony, photos, and memories, so it’s important to choose one that feels perfect for you. Here’s a detailed blog to help you decide, covering all the key factors to consider and practical tips to make your choice easier.
Key Factors to Consider
Picking a location for your elopement isn’t just about finding beautiful scenery. There are practical details worth factoring in to ensure everything goes smoothly. Here’s what to think about:
Weather
Weather can shape your elopement day in a big way, so it’s essential to plan around it. First, think about your ideal conditions. Do you want sunshine, cooler air, fall colors, or snowy landscapes? Then, look into the typical weather patterns of your chosen location during your elopement season.
If you’re considering a summer elopement in the southwest, certain locations can get super hot, with temperatures pushing above 100°F. On the other hand, if you’re dreaming of a winter ceremony in the mountains, places like Glacier National Park in Montana may have limited access due to heavy snow.
It’s also smart to prepare for unexpected shifts. Mountain regions, for instance, are notorious for quick weather changes. You could start your ceremony under a blue sky and end it in a thunderstorm. Backup plans, layered clothing, and sturdy shoes can make all the difference when weather is unpredictable.
Accessibility
How easy (or difficult) it is to reach your chosen ceremony spot plays a big role in your experience. Some dream locations, like remote waterfalls or rugged peaks, might require long hikes, climbing steep trails, or even off-road vehicles. While this can add to the adventure, it’s not always practical for every couple or group. Seclusion sounds exciting, but are you and your loved ones prepared for the hike? If you’re inviting guests, accessibility becomes even more vital, for example, some friends or family members might have physical limitations that make adventurous spots tricky.
When considering accessibility, think about your goals for the day. A remote location might feel more private and serene, but a spot that’s easier to reach could save time, energy, and stress, leaving you free to soak in the moment.
Time of Year
Timing is everything when it comes to elopements. Popular spots can get packed during certain months or weekends, especially iconic locations like Yosemite, Mount Rainier, or the beaches in Hawaii. A summer Saturday might mean sharing your ceremony with dozens of other hikers or tourists nearby. For those seeking privacy, consider eloping during the off-season or mid-week. However, keep in mind that off-season may bring different challenges, such as colder temperatures, rain, or fewer services at the location.
Morning or sunrise ceremonies can also be an incredible way to avoid crowds while enjoying soft, golden light. Your first moments as a married couple can feel truly intimate when most people are still asleep or just starting their day.
Permits and Rules
Many public lands, such as national parks and national forests, require permits for elopements. These permits help ensure the protection of the area and can specify rules for groups. For example, in Rocky Mountain National Park, popular spots for ceremonies like Sprague Lake or Bear Lake require permits, and group size is limited to 30 people. Similarly, Yosemite has strict rules about which areas are eligible for weddings. Rules go beyond permits. Some locations restrict decorations, loud music, or seating for guests. Reading up on these regulations beforehand will help you avoid surprises and ensure compliance.
Privacy
Do you dream of saying your vows in total peace, or are you okay with a few visitors nearby? Privacy can vary widely depending on where and when you elope. Popular landmarks or viewpoints tend to draw a crowd, particularly during peak tourist seasons.
If privacy is a priority, consider more secluded trails, remote locations, or less-visited areas like national forests instead of parks. Another approach is to elope at sunrise or at more hidden, off-the-map spots.
For example, instead of eloping right in front of Mt. Rainier you might choose its lesser-known trails that are just as stunning but much quieter. Similarly, national forest access points near Mt. Rainier often provide similar views with far fewer interruptions.
Overall Vibe
Finally, the overall feel of your location matters. Do you picture something dramatic, like a cliff edge or rolling desert dunes, or something softer, like a meadow or forest clearing? Your location can reflect pieces of your relationship and your shared memories. Start by thinking about what resonates with you both. Does a mountain lake remind you of a favorite camping trip? Or is the ocean special because it was where you started dating? The location should feel like it belongs to your story.
National Parks vs. National Forests
For couples craving a natural outdoor setting, both national parks and national forests offer incredible scenery. However, the two have key differences worth considering when planning your elopement.
National Parks
National parks are well-known iconic landscapes. They feature dramatic views, widely photographed landmarks, and developed amenities like maintained trails, maps, and ranger stations. A place like Yellowstone, with its geothermal pools and expansive meadows, or Glacier National Park, with its alpine lakes, creates the kind of backdrop you can’t help but love.
However, this popularity means larger crowds, stricter regulations, and often, higher fees for permits. Popular parks can be packed during peak seasons, which can make privacy a challenge. It’s also common for national parks to limit where weddings can take place. For Pros & Cons About Getting Married in a National Park, check out my blog for all the info!
National Forests
National forests offer similar natural beauty but tend to fly under the radar. They are generally less crowded, making them perfect for couples hoping for a more private and peaceful atmosphere. National forests often have looser restrictions compared to parks. They might still require permits, but the rules regarding group size, decorations, or noise levels are usually more relaxed. That said, trails and facilities might not be as developed, so some extra planning may be needed.
Ultimately, the choice between a national park and a national forest comes down to your personal preferences for privacy, services, and adventure.
How Your Guest List Influences Your Choice
Elopements are all about creating a day that feels right for you, and your guest list plays a big part in determining the best spot.
No Guests
If it’s just the two of you, your photographer, and maybe an officiant, your options are wide open. You can choose remote or hard-to-get-to locations knowing logistics will be simpler. A hidden alpine lake, a high desert overlook, or a secluded beach can be dreamy when there’s no crowd to consider.
Small Groups
For couples bringing a small group of friends or family (under 10 or so), you’ll want a location that can comfortably accommodate everyone. This might mean choosing one that’s easy to reach, like a meadow with nearby parking or a short walk. Locations like Crested Butte in Colorado offer stunning views with easy access for smaller parties.
Larger Groups
Planning for bigger groups may require more attention to rules and accessibility. Many public spaces cap group sizes to avoid strain on the environment or interference with other visitors. For places allowing larger groups, make sure there’s enough space for everyone to gather while still enjoying the scenery.
If you’re still wondering How Many People Should You Invite To Your Elopement, I’ve written a separate blog all about this topic!
How I Help With The Planning Process
As an elopement photographer, I do more than just take photos, I help make your entire day as seamless and enjoyable as possible. Here’s how I assist in the planning process:
Location Scouting
Choosing the right spot can feel overwhelming with so many breathtaking options. I’ll help you narrow down the possibilities by getting to know your vision and priorities, and then scouting the perfect location for your elopement. Whether you want remote, adventurous, or easy access, I’ll provide personal suggestions based on your preferences and ensure the setting aligns with what you’re dreaming of.
Assisting with Permits
Many couples aren’t aware of the permit requirements for public lands like national parks or forests. I’ll guide you through that process by researching what’s needed and helping you secure the necessary permits. This ensures everything is handled ahead of time, so you won’t face any surprises on your day.
Building Timelines
Your elopement should feel relaxed and stress-free, but good planning is key to achieving this. I work with you to create a thoughtful timeline for your day, taking into account travel times, optimal lighting for photos, and enough space to soak in the moment without feeling rushed.
Providing Planning Guides
I also offer valuable resources to help simplify the process. From packing checklists to tips about dressing for the outdoors, my guides take the guesswork out of elopement planning. You’ll have the tools you need to feel fully prepared and excited for the adventure ahead.
Choosing a Location That’s Perfect for You
Your elopement is as unique as your love story, and your location should reflect that. By thinking through factors like weather, privacy, accessibility, and the size of your group, you can find a place that matches your vision. Let’s connect! Fill out my contact form and I’ll reach out to you. With the right support and planning, your dream elopement location is closer than you think!
